Finally. The ex dude is here for a visit...we've taken him all over the place and played tour guides (more on that later). It';s all going great. Easy going freindship thing, for the most part. couple minor slip ups into slightly uncomfortable territory; but any conflicts get resolved fairly fast without undue fuss.
Tonight, we finally managed to tell his parents that we are getting a divorce.
A few days ago, we agreed its time to actually get started filing for divorce, after several years of separation, and both of us being in serious relationships with others.
I don't know how i feel. I feel little. Telling the in laws had been a major want of mine...and a major fear. When the ex and i split, i was far more anxious over the thoguht of saying goodbye to his family then worry about what would happen to him and i. Guess thats normal; we'd both had time to adjust, and we knew we would sort things out to a good friendship.
But I'm worried it will be hard for the family to do the same.
I want to make them stay right where they were in my life. but know it is inevitable that things will change alot from here on in.
I feel lost.
And I'm glad it's done.
2 comments:
*hug*
Change? Sure, but every relationship is constantly changing and evolving.
Try not to worry too much hun. You're pretty f**kin' far from forgettable. ;)
ain't that the truth =) *hugs*
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